Bedroom environment
Creating a
calm and comfortable bedroom will help your child settle down for
sleep. Consider the following for your child’s
bedroom:
• Is
there too much or too little light? Try a night light if your child
does not like the dark. If the room is
too
bright try heavier curtains or blackout linings for the
curtains. A blanket over the window would also
work.
• Is the
room too hot or too cold? Children do not sleep as well in an
over-heated room. Try leaving a
window
open to allow fresh air to circulate.
• What
is the noise level like? Can your child still hear the television
or conversations? You may want to
play
some quiet music so your child can listen to this or let your child
listen to a story on a tape till he or
she
drifts off to sleep.
• Is
your child’s bed comfortable? If the bed is over ten years
old it may not be comfortable and may
need
changing.
• Is the
bed placed by the door or by a draught - could the position of the
bed be changed?
• Does
your child have asthma or any allergies to dust mites? These are
present in all mattresses and
may cause your
child to cough or sneeze through the night. Make sure you vacuum
the bed regularly.
You
can also get a mattress cover that can be washed that can reduce
dust mites, available from most
major
stores.
• Is
your child’s bedroom too stimulating for them? Are there too
many posters on the walls; can they
see
all their games and toys; do they have a TV or computer in their
room? Try to avoid your child
playing computer games in the hour or two leading up to sleep time
as they can become over
stimulated and find it harder to settle.
• If
possible try to put toys and books away on a shelf (which can then
be covered by a curtain) or in a
box or
drawer.
• Does
your child feel safe in their bed? Your child may prefer to have a
low bed or mattress on the
floor.
• Also,
consider placing a soft blanket on the floor so if they do fall out
they are less likely to hurt
themselves. A tightly rolled up blanket placed on the edge of the
bed under the bottom sheet to prevent
them
from accidentally rolling out of bed may also add to your
child’s feeling of security. Placing your
child
in a sleeping bag instead of under a duvet can have a
similar effect.
• Try
using blankets. Some children prefer the “weight” of a
blanket and they can also be tucked in.
Place
the bed against the wall.
• Does
your child sleep with the door open or closed? Do they have any
fears about being in their room
on
their own? It is quite common for young people to have fears about
going to bed. Try talking to your
child about their
fears. Ask them what they are afraid of and respect what they say.
Reassure and
support your child about how real these fears are. It is not
helpful to ignore your child’s fears or put
them
down by saying things like ‘you are being a baby for being
afraid of that’. Try not to over-react as
your
child will pick up on your emotions. More information on sleep
problems in childhood and
adolescence can be found at:
http://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/mentalhealthinfo/mentalhealthandgrowingup/7sleepproblemsinchildhood.aspx